Gradifying Blog

Gradifying is a weekly blog series by grad students, for grad students. It features topics ranging from school life to self-improvement and everything in-between.

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Whether you are returning to 黑料吃瓜资源, or this is your very first year, there are ample opportunities to make new friends in an unfamiliar program. As a 黑料吃瓜资源 graduate student, you get the luxury of having access to numerous grad student-only spaces. This allows for the perfect opportunity to meet other graduate students, who may belong to a different faculty or program.

In the midst of working hard, it's important to remember to destress and take time for you.

Every Sunday morning from10:00 am 鈥� 11:00 am the city of Kingston offers free yoga classes at Confederation Park - Arrive early to find your instructor and set up your mat in your favourite spot.

Each class is taught by a different yoga studio exposing you to a variety of yoga practices and yogis.

 

At 黑料吃瓜资源 we are lucky enough to have the Society of Graduate Studies and Postdoctoral Affairs. The SGSPA works to make our experience in graduate school as positive as possible, providing support, encouragement, and professional development opportunities. I have benefitted greatly from many of the programs that they offer! This post will spotlight some of the programs and events that the SGSPA offers for grad students. 

Every Thursday, the city of Kingston offers fun, free, family and dog-friendly outdoor movies. Screening begin at dusk, June 15 鈥� August 31 at the Springer Market Square located behind City Hall. There is something so magical about being surrounded by people all watching the same movie under the stars on a giant inflatable screen.

Here is the entertaining line up this year:

Grad school is hard. Most of us at some point (or points) during our degree could benefit from some mental health help. It can be intimidating to look for services, and there are options available that you might not even be aware of. I hope that by creating a 鈥榗heat sheet鈥� of different sources for working on your mental health, you are able to find whatever you think would be best for you. I also will recommend that you try to avoid my mistake 鈥� waiting until things are an emergency.

Hello fellow grad students! This post is coming from the heart of tough times in the research realm. POV, I just spent the past year and a half building a research partnership to have my site withdraw just days before data collection. If research heartbreak is a thing, I am definitely feeling it.

Grind culture seems to be something celebrated on a lot of platforms. Many of us talk about the nights that we spent, full of caffeine and manic energy, trying to keep up with assignments, readings, and everything else on our plates. There can be an almost toxic celebration of the suffering that comes from the 鈥榞rad school grind鈥�. I know that I fell into this trap of putting aside my physical and mental health while trying to keep up. And it always seemed like other people were doing more, and handling things better. Why couldn鈥檛 I keep up?

By the time you are reading this, I have just finished defending my PhD. What a wonderful thought that is as I can currently feel the nervous butterflies flutter in my stomach. After 5 years of working on my PhD, I got to submit it to the exam committee. Although that in and of itself is a huge accomplishment, I could not help but feel more nervous than happy at the time. For those of you who do not know, you submit your PhD 5 weeks before the defense.

Certainly, it鈥檚 no secret that grad students have this immense pressure to be working around the clock. Evenings, weekends, holidays; if we aren鈥檛 working, we must be falling behind. If we fall behind, we must not be working hard enough. Isn鈥檛 it ironic that after years of working with lab rats, we seem to become lab rats ourselves?

Picture this: It鈥檚 the summer of 2020, you鈥檝e been quarantining with your family for 2 months, while you count down the days until you鈥檙e back at school in September. As an undergraduate student at 黑料吃瓜资源, I was lucky enough to have a summer home in Kingston, which I used as my last-minute escape from the COVID-19 madness. I packed up my bags, said goodbye to my family, and made the two-and-a-half-hour trip to Kingston.